Wednesday, August 27, 2008
回头草我不吃
施舍的我不要
用过的我不要
勉强的我不屑
- My Prerogative
8:15 PM
Sunday, August 24, 2008
I want this!
- My Prerogative
5:18 AM
我知道有时候的我很任性，很幼稚，很自我，很冲动
还好有你们在身边。。
你们的支持，鼓励，包容和加油对我来说都无比珍贵
你们为我做的一切我都放在心上
谢谢你们我的朋友！
- My Prerogative
4:54 AM
Saturday, August 23, 2008
tian's so looking forward to October.
4 Oct - A*mei Star World Tour
15 Oct - tian's 21st Birthday
24-27 Oct - Hong Kong trip (thou' going with unfavourable people.. but still... )
- My Prerogative
5:04 AM
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Eventful and blood-boiling would be the best descriptive words to use for the past 2 weeks for tian. Well, it really did not take me much time to see who are the people who can't wait to create chao in my life
The past weeks, I've been counseled like nobody's business. I told A, F, W, and N. All of them gave me the same conclusion - M is pin-pointing me.
These are the accusations :
1. Why can't I be like 'my qing ai de' ? Why can't I 撒娇 to that old woman (I've once again declared war with the old woman, this time round, things were a little different, it's official war)Now then I know, not being like someone else is also a crime. Don't you know everyone is an unique individual? So what? You mean you expect your husband to look like other man ? Then the entire street will be filled with your husband huh ? Please lor. I'm not obliged to make anyone happy. Don't tell me things like 'She's already in her 50s, you should make her happy, only then it will be easier to get the things you want from her' . What I want to put across is, Yeah, true that she's already in her 50s and I respect her seniority. But that doesn't mean that she can go around making things difficult for others. As much as how I respect her, I would expect her to display minimal respect for me as well. Dont't tell me you're helping me by telling me the mistakes I've made. Yeah, your intention might not be evil. But let me tell you, there are alot of ways to put across 1 single meaning to others. And I believe scolding, humilating, reprimanding are not one of them cos' firstly I'm neither your daughter nor sister so don't speak to me in that sickening manner. The one whom I've closest to don't tell me " My invoices converted already or not has nothing got to do with you' . When you say this, it simply shows that you're a rotten person. You don't know how to appreciate what others have done for you. And I hate ungrateful brats.
Anyway, to M :
Let others do what they are doing but don't expect me to do the same. I've my own principles to adhere to and this is my bottomline.
2. Why didn't I speak to the old woman in a more friendly tone?Are you sure I didn't ? Was I hostile to her since the first day we communicate? NO. Don't expect me to be friendly to you when you treat me like shit ?
3. Why were my electronic mails composed in sucha professional manner ?This the the biggest joke I've ever came across. I thought in poly days we were taught by our communiucation skills teacher that emails are professional business writing and it should be written in a formal tone. I thought it was especially true since our company is a foreign MNC based and the sickening consultants have the habit of forwarding your emails to clients and they tend to print your emails out as a form of supporting. And I definately do not want the jury or judge to laugh at my command of English should my email be presented to court one day. But that day, someone told me that emails shouldn't be composed using bombastic words but simple and straightforward English. Yes! I totally agreed to this statement of hers. Emails should be simple and straightforward UNDER CERTAIN CIRCUMSTANCES and NOT DURING CERTAIN. It should be when it is MEANT FOR CERTAIN PEOPLE and NOT FOR CERTAIN PEOPLE. It should be when you want to PUT ACROSS CERTAIN MESSAGES AND NOT FOR CERTAIN.
4. 'I hope you know what the company has done for you'Oh mentioning of this. I think the contribution I have for this organisation aint any lesser. You told me you've terminated the temporary assistant because she did not want to take my instructions. After that you hired a 50 years old aunty and told me you hired her to lighten my burden. Hey, don't put things in such a nice manner. Don't say everything is done for my sake. I don't feel honoured at all. How do you measure my contribution when I stayed till midnight to complete my work, to meet deadlines when not a single cent of overtime pay was administer to me ? How do you measure my contribution when I sacrifice my lunchtime in order for others to meet deadlines ? How do you think I feel when I came to office at 6am to process invoice in order not to clash with the others but in the end got comments like ' 你到底睡醒了没有?' Ive slogged and to my discovery, no one appreciated them. You talked about productivity, efficiency etc ? Have I not met your expectation ? Since when have I fail you ? I'm proud to say I've not let the company down. So please........
5. 'Do you know that you are very rude when you ask this question and you're questioning with anger'My invoices was rejected. The rejection was send to the strategic account director. Out of curiousity I ask : " I don't understand why the rejection email wasn't sent to R ( the branch director) or Me but the strategic account director. Is this a very rude question? Being ignorant is also rude ? If clarifying my doubts because of my lack of understanding is what you consider as rude then I shall keep my mouth shut. Just make sure you don't say I'm not displaying understanding or I'm not responding in future.
I think I'm quite convinced that sometimes acting deaf and mute and adopting the bochap attitude is really useful when tackling certain people. Because they think they understand but they don't. They expect you to listen to them but they don't listen to you talk. They say everything they did n said is for your own good but do they really know what you need? They don't and I'm utterly disappointed with these people.
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1:48 AM
